Book Review—Small as a Mustard Seed

A Novel by Shelli Johnson

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Critical Acclaim

Such beautiful language and rich imagery.” —A. Manette Ansay, author of Vinegar Hill, an Oprah Book Club selection

Stunning. Absolutely stunning.” —Mort Castle, Pulitzer Prize-nominated author of Moon on the Water

“Johnson weaves words as fluidly as a seamstress weaves threads. The story flows effortlessly, pulling the reader along from one riveting scene to the next. It’s brilliantly and ruthlessly told.” —Janet Britton, author of To Live Each Moment

“With much urgency and authority, Shelli Johnson immediately engages the reader. This is a real page turner, a gripping tale of a family blown apart by tragedy. Yet, ultimately, the novel is redeeming as well, told through the viewpoint of a heroine who will both break and mend your heart. This is a stunning debut novel to what I know will be a stunning career.” —Sue William Silverman, author of Love Sick

Book Description from the author’s website

As a child in 1960′s rural Ohio, Ann Marie Adler finds herself caught between her father, Frank, a veteran who survived the war in Korea but with devastating post-traumatic stress, and her mother, Adele, who is blindsided by the mental illness that accompanied him home. In a series of escalating dangerous episodes, Frank confuses reality with soul-searing memories, believing he’s still a soldier fighting for his life in battle-torn Korea. During the delusions, Ann Marie and her younger sister, Jolene, become the enemy, which leaves them fearing for their lives. Unable to fully protect her daughters, Adele scrambles to keep order while her husband’s threatening and unpredictable outbursts slowly tear the family apart.

I’m a Vietnam War veteran. That is what attracted me to Shelli Johnson’s book initially. Having subscribed to Shelli’s blog, I was already familiar with her writing and enjoyed the information she provided.

Small as a Mustard Seed focuses on the effects of post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) by a Korean War veteran. This is an unfortunate side effect of war. The book takes you on a journey as seen through the eyes of Ann Marie Adler, a daughter of Frank whose life has been shattered by PTSD. The book occurs during the period from November, 1965 to June 1999. Its genre is literary fiction. It is a heart-wrenching, emotional journey but it conveys a message that resonates at multiple levels. At first I picked up on the PTSD. This disorder has been called combat fatigue, or combat stress syndrome before PTSD became the accepted term; but it’s really about much more than that. Much of the story contains universal nuggets that most all of us can identify with.

As we watch the story unfold, the author gives us near cinematic word pictures of the world around Ann Marie. Character development is at the heart of this story and Shelli Johnson’s characters come alive before us.
I remain convinced this story will resonate at different levels and for different reasons with people from diverse backgrounds. It is very much a book about reflections and universal experiences even though it focuses on the theme of PTSD.

 Parts of the book will sadden you, yet as you read about sad, difficult circumstances you will find seeds of hope. That hope will continue throughout the book and is what makes it so inspirational. In the past much of my reading has been in the suspense-thriller genre. I finished by thinking, this is what classic literature is all about. Small as a Mustard Seed is a book that will hold its own alongside great literature. It is a story I will savor for a long time to come.

Small as a Mustard Seed is one of the most compelling and well crafted books I’ve read in a very long time. I’ve found a new favorite author and Shelli Johnson is that author.

Excerpt:

My father leaned forward, his voice dropping a notch lower. “Things were right with me before the hill?”

“Things was right with everybody before that damn hill.” “But me, Leo?” My father drank some more beer then belched softly. “Things were all right with me?”

 Leo’s joint smoldered between his fingers. He shook the beer bottle, flicking beads of water across the floor. “You didn’t act no different than usual. That what you want to know?”

“But after? After I got shot?”

“You didn’t know where you was. Sarge said you was talking funny before the chopper took you. Wasn’t nobody else saw you after that. Hospital and then home. Man, that’s all I know.”

 

Johnson, Shelli (2011-05-28). Small as a Mustard Seed (Kindle Locations 1368-1379). TEN TWENTY-SEVEN BOOKS. Kindle Edition.

Links to the authors website:

http://shellijohnson.com/books/small-as-a-mustard-seed/

Other Reviews: http://shellijohnson.com/reviews/small-as-a-mustard-seed/

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Book Review– SINS OF THE ANGELS: The Grigori Legacy

Five Stars to SINS OF THE ANGELS: The Grigori Legacy
by Linda Poitevin

Spectacular Debut Urban Fantasy

A detective with a secret lineage. 
An undercover Hunter with a bullet-proof soul. 
And a world made to pay for the sins of an angel… 

When SINS OF THE ANGELS: The Grigori Legacy hit the book shelves in September 2011, it did so as resounding success with  stellar reviews by the literary community, and with good reason.

Linda Poitevin’s debut urban fantasy novel will grab you and take you on a thrilling, page turning ride. The story opens with Homicide Detective Alexandra Jarvis caught up in the most challenging case of her career.  The story begins right after the retirement of her long time partner. Her investigation seems to be one step behind a bloody, serial killer who destroys his victims while leaving no evidence behind. Her work is troubled by flashbacks which lead her to question her own sanity.  It is a compelling and intense story, delivered using a clear methodical approach.

Detective Jarvis’s new partner Aramael, who she knows a Trent, appears to be a newbie detective. He is in fact an angelic Power—one who hunts Fallen Angels. This time, the fallen angel is his brother who just happens to be the serial killer. When Jarvis and Trent meet, sparks fly. As the story unfolds, the pair struggle to find common ground. We learn he has been sent to protect her and this task is made more difficult as he begins to have feelings for her. At stake: stopping a fallen-angel, hell bent on triggering the apocalypse.

The author’s descriptions pull the reader into the inner workings of a police crime unit, and take us behind the scenes with a host of angelic beings. Character development is exceptional. Suspense, action and dialog are brilliant. Read SINS OF THE ANGELS, by Linda Poitevin. You’ll be glad you did.

Links:
For author’s page for background, updates and purchase information,  Click Here 
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Autism Follow-up: Wandering and Other Dangerous Behaviors in Autism

I’m honored by the return of Bobbi Sheahan and Dr. DeOrnellas. In this post they have agreed to share insights into  behavioral risks associated with Autism.

Wandering and Other Dangerous Behaviors in Autism

By Bobbi Sheahan and Kathy DeOrnellas, Ph.D.

Thanks you, Rich, for having us on your blog!  We are back for part 2.  Our first segment was an introduction to autism. In Part 2, we are going to discuss some dangerous behaviors that are often part and parcel of raising a child on the autism spectrum.  Many of these are things I (Bobbi) would never have imagined before having an autistic child, and I have a pretty good imagination.

We’ll start with one of the more alarming behaviors sometimes exhibited by children with autism:  wandering or running.  We expect toddlers to take a run, if you will, at running away from Mom or Dad.  When a child has autism, that phase can go on for year after hair-raising year.

One mom, let’s call her Oona – has an elementary-school-aged son who has given her more than a run for her money:

“He would run out the door, in the street, thru parking lots, down the block, away, away, away. We had to install key-to-key deadbolts & flip-locks on all of our doors. We got handicap parking tags so we could park right next to the door. And sometimes I made him wear a strap from my wrist to his or from the shopping cart or stroller to his wrist. It was horrible & terrifying having to always be worried that someone forgot to lock a lock & he could be two blocks away at any time. On top of the running, he had absolutely no fear/safety boundaries. He would run into traffic or stop & talk to *anyone* telling them within minutes that they were his best friend & he loved them. Very scary stuff.”

I can relate to the Extreme Locks – I have had friends actually laugh at our locks and alarms, and the one on our front door actually once foiled a burglar (!), but Oona risked the scorn of the community – and certain members of her extended family — by taking the Next Step and using a leash.  I asked her how that was received. She said:

“I never got a ton of questions, usually just the sideways looks. Right after diagnosis, I was happy to volunteer answers to the looks – “he has an autism disorder, he runs away”. Later, I just stopped caring what people thought. I don’t have the time or the patience any longer to explain to everyone that I’m not a horrible parent.  I did get comments from my family (who do not understand his diagnosis & what it means for him, or care to educate themselves) like “a leash?!” or the ever popular & interchangeable, “Bring him to my house, I’ll straighten him out” & “you just need to spank him more” (typically said much more crudely by my mother-in-law as “beat his a**” – lovely).

Stories like this make me less likely to judge.  I certainly did judge myself a lot when my own child showed tendencies to flee.  My daughter’s running phase lasted for four years.  Four. Long. Years.  I remember vividly the day that she stood transfixed, staring at an open gate, repeating the cautions I’d been saying to her for years.  I admit it – I cried.  For joy, for relief, and for finally being able to laugh about the time she escaped on a tricycle and took years off the end of my life.

But wandering is no laughing matter.  According to multiple press and online reports, one father in Canada experienced the nightmare of having his nine-year-old daughter wander from their fenced yard, only to be found some hours later in a neighbor’s yard; authorities subsequently took the girl from her father’s custody based on this incident, according to this source http://www.autismkey.com/child-with-autism-taken-by-authorities-ayn-van-dyk/ and scores of others like it online.

What Can We Do About Running?  It took our family several years to instill the “do not run away” message, and it will take some folks even longer.  What can parents do in the meantime?  Besides the aforementioned locks and other physical protections, some families employ personal GPS monitors or autism service dogs who are trained to stay with the children and whose leashes are also snugly attached to the child’s wrists.  The question of why our kids wander is a tough one and beyond the scope of this article, but some folks say that the service dogs may also alleviate some of the anxiety that leads to wandering.

Police departments in the U.S. also have free biometric registries where you can provide your child’s fingerprints, pictures, and some basic information.  Many of us also have medical alert bracelets for our kids.  Special Education classrooms often have an aide dedicated to watching the doors, and I spoke with one mom who rejected an otherwise good school solely on the grounds that the front door opened up onto a busy parking lot and an even busier street.

The National Autism Association has a wonderful twelve-point list of action items to address safety concerns.  The list, which can be found in its entirety here, http://www.autismsafety.org/prevention.php?way=12  , includes several of the items mentioned here, plus some others such as designating an Adult In Charge at gatherings so that it’s clear that someone is watching our kids.

Wandering isn’t the only danger that our kids can get into. Jenny Herman, who is the Social Media coordinator for Home Educating Family and blogger extraordinaire at www.manyhatsmommy.com, tells the story of her son’s penchant for underdressing:

“The other day Josh and a friend left the apartment ahead of another mom and I. They went down the hall and out the door. They were waiting next to the friend’s van, but Josh was in shorts and NO SHOES in 30-something degree weather!”

Jenny also had a lot to say about property damage, inflicted with objects that could also be dangerous to life and limb:

“Josh has an obsession with using a tack (push pin, whatever you want to call it) to dig in the wall. He has many dime-sized holes around his room. In this incident, I came in to check on him, and he was digging at the wall next to the night light with a tack to “let more light into your room, Mommy.” At that point, he had only taken off the white paint and you could see the brown covering of the sheet rock (or whatever it is).

This FOOLISH mommy did not cover up the spot. Six weeks later, he came out to tell me he was having a hard time sleeping. Then he told me his body just had to carve something. I went into his room, and there was sheet rock dust all over the wall, the night light, his radio, and the floor. His toy screwdriver was on the floor. He had used his toy screwdriver to dig THROUGH the wall, a Real Live Hole in the Wall, as in you could see the dark space in between the walls. I said, “What did you use to dig that hole?”

“A piece of glass.”

“GLASS! What glass?” trying not to jump out of my skin.

“The glass that was by the ladder.”

“Where is it?”

“I put it in the hole.”

He had no cuts or blood, so I think he found a piece of plastic that looked like glass. I covered the hole w/paper and masking tape and amazingly nothing more has happened there. However, he cannot leave the wall alone! I’ve found other small spots…

Jenny also shared this photo with me – which I hasten to add does not reflect any physical injuries to her son –but I won’t even ruin it by attempting to caption it. It’s already well over a thousand words, I figure:

The lack of caution that we see in some kids definitely extends to safety concerns around water.  Erin McMinn Nieman, in her blog called Noah’s ARC, tells the harrowing story of her son’s close call in “Mothers’ Day Under the Sea,”  http://www.noahs-arc.com/archives/972   Her story of her son’s plunge into a murky lake and her quick rescue of him is harrowing, but what really resonated with me was his response to being saved from drowning:  “Noah walked happily on, holding my hand as if nothing had happened.”

These stories highlight the importance of safeguarding our children.  While these stories may be amusing to someone who did not experience them, our children are in significant danger and have a much higher risk of engaging in dangerous behaviors that result in an injury.  They are more likely to suffer head injuries and to poison themselves accidentally; they are also more likely to end up in hospital emergency rooms.

This is true for several reasons. Many children on the spectrum do not experience pain the way the rest of us do and, rather than learning that the stove is hot on the first trial, they touch the stove again and again.  They also do not understand that certain situations are dangerous.  For example, our children may not understand that running out into traffic can result in injury or death; rather, they are focused on escaping an uncomfortable situation.

While all children are impulsive at times, children on the spectrum are especially so and do not think through the consequences of their behaviors. As a result, they can end up in some precarious situations. Although keeping our children safe can be very difficult, it is critical. I suggest that in any situation you have a “designated watcher” for your child – someone who is responsible for seeing that he or she remains safe. This is especially important in crowds, unfamiliar settings, or anywhere your child feels uncomfortable.

Bobbi Sheahan and Kathy DeOrnellas, Ph.D. are the authors of What I Wish I’d Known About Raising a Child With Autism; A Mom and a Therapist Offer Heartfelt Guidance for the First Five Years (Future Horizons, 2011).   Portions of this article are excerpted and adapted from the book, which is available at www.fhautism.com and wherever books are sold.   Readers of this blog can use the promotional code BOBBI for 15% off of What I Wish I’d Known About Raising a Child With Autism  and any other Future Horizons product or conference, plus free shipping.  Bobbi’s website is www.bobbisheahan.com, and she would love to hear from you at me@bobbisheahan.com.  You can also connect with her on Twitter at  @BobbiSheahan or on Facebook.

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Autism 101: What The Rest of Us Need to Know

I want to take this opportunity to welcome Bobbi Sheahan and Kathy DeOrnellas, Ph.D. to present a carefully prepared introduction on autism for the rest of us. This should come as a welcomed post to my followers, many of whom take an active interest in Autism Spectrum Disorder and Asperger. This is a cause I have taken an active interest in for several months. I consider this to be a special presentation.

Thank you for sharing Bobbie and Dr. DeOrnellas!

Autism 101:  What The Rest of Us Need to Know

By Bobbi Sheahan and Kathy DeOrnellas, Ph.D.

Thank you so much, Rich Weatherly, for asking us to guest post on your blog!  My name is Bobbi Sheahan, and I appreciate the opportunity to talk to your readers about autism.

Ten years ago, when I got married, I knew next to nothing about autism.   Sure, I’d seen Rainman, but I’d never met someone with autism.  Well, that’s not exactly true, but I didn’t know it at the time.  You see, ten years ago, as I mentioned, I was getting married to my dear husband who is, as it turns out, on the autism spectrum.  His Asperger traits are a huge part of what makes him a wonderful husband and a successful engineer, but I’m getting ahead of myself.

My husband wasn’t the one who introduced my family to autism.  Two other people did that:  our daughter, who is also on the spectrum, and Dr. Kathy DeOrnellas.  Since I can’t bring each of you to her to hear Dr. DeOrnellas speak – and I would if I could –  I’m bringing her to you.   I’ll let her have the floor for a while now, so that she can explain to you some basic definitions about autism.

Autism spectrum disorders (ASDs), or Pervasive Developmental Disorders, are the fastest growing class of developmental disabilities in the United States and currently affect over 1.5 million Americans (Autism Society of America [ASA], 2009). In 2007, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention determined that the prevalence of autism is currently 1 in every 94 for boys and 1 in 150 for all American children (ASA). More recent studies have placed the numbers as high as 1 in 91 children overall, and 1 in 58 boys.  This phenomenon has been widely discussed on television and in the press (Cowley, 2003).

Despite the vast amount of research being conducted each year, there are many different theories and a lot of disagreement on this topic, and it seems that each week brings news of breakthroughs in our understanding.  I do believe that there will be clear and widespread understanding of what causes autism in the foreseeable future.  Causation of autism isn’t what we’re here to explain today, though.  Today, we’re here to explain a bit about what autism is – and what it isn’t.

It’s important that we understand more about autism because it impacts all of us.  Almost everyone knows someone with autism, and it has an enormous impact on families, school systems, and communities.   Whether you’re trying to understand your nephew or a child in your daughter’s class or you’re a businessperson trying to understand how to accommodate people with autism, autism touches your life – or it will soon.  The economic impact of autism – which I use because it demonstrates how impactful autism is to families and communities, and money is easy to quantify — is now just beginning to be well-understood as well.   The Autism Society of America estimates that it costs 3.5 to 5 million dollars to care for a child with autism over his lifetime; the United States spends almost $90 billion each year for autism. This figure includes research, health care, education, housing, transportation, etc.

It has been 70 years since Kanner first wrote about children with autism and Asperger wrote about children with a higher functioning form of autism. In that time, we have learned a great deal; however, we still have far to go.

Much attention is currently being given to “Aspies” in popular culture.  There are several current television shows with characters who are supposed to represent various autistic traits – with varying degrees of accuracy and dignity.

Diagnosis of Autism Spectrum Disorders

 ASDs, also known as Pervasive Developmental Disorders, are diagnosed by comparing a child’s behavior (or the behavior of an individual at any age) to a set of symptoms that have been established as the diagnostic criteria.

Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASDs) fall under the umbrella known as Pervasive Developmental Disorders. Several types of ASDs have been identified, and it is most helpful to think of them as falling on a continuum.

In the United States, the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders-Fourth Edition-Text Revision (DSM-IV-TR; American Psychiatric Association, 2000) is the most widely used set of symptoms. The DSM-IV-TR is a sort of encyclopedia of mental health disorders. Psychiatrists write the DSM-IV-TR and use a medical model for interpreting behavioral symptoms of mental health problems. It is important to know that this is the fourth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders and the diagnosis of autism has been handled differently in each edition. As we learn more about a disorder, changes are made in the diagnostic criteria.  The new diagnosis book, the DSM-V, is scheduled to be released in 2013, and it may bring substantial changes that will probably result in a narrowing of the diagnostic criteria and the number of people receiving a diagnosis of autism under the DSM-V.  Outside the U.S., the ICD-10, the tenth edition of the International Classification of Diseases, which is published by the World Health Organization, is used. Since autism is diagnosed in individuals all over the world, it is important to recognize that the DSM-IV-TR is not the only tool used for diagnosing individuals.

 What Autism is – and what it isn’t

Autism is at one end of the continuum and is the most severe type of ASD. Children with autism have unusual behaviors that are repetitive and stereotypical, as well as very restricted interests and activities. They have severely disordered verbal and nonverbal language and as many as half never develop any type of language. Autism is also characterized by impairments in social interaction that include poor eye-to-eye gaze, lack of social or emotional turn-taking, and a failure to develop relationships with peers.  Most children with autism also have delayed intellectual abilities (DSM-IV-TR, 2000).

On the other end of the autism spectrum or continuum, children with Asperger’s Disorder generally have age-appropriate expressive and receptive language skills and average intelligence or above. They have difficulty using and understanding nonverbal behaviors, however, and their pragmatic language skills are typically impaired. As a result, social interactions are quite difficult. Children with Asperger’s Disorder typically have an overwhelming preoccupation with one or more topics (i.e., dinosaurs, skyscrapers, Egyptology, etc.) and are inflexibly bound by routine. They may have stereotyped mannerisms and/or a persistent preoccupation with parts of objects. This form of ASD also appears more frequently in males (DSM-IV-TR, 2000).

Other forms of autism include Rett’s Disorder, Childhood Disintegrative Disorder, and Pervasive Developmental Disorder Not Otherwise Specified. The diagnosis Pervasive Developmental Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (PDD NOS) is given to those children who have some symptoms of an ASD, but not enough for a full diagnosis. The diagnosis of PDD NOS, also known as atypical autism, is used when children have unusual symptoms or when their symptoms become apparent at a later age than is typical (DSM-IV-TR, 2000).  If you’re picturing a spectrum, PDD NOS is in the middle.

Much of the literature and discussion about autism deals with children with autism.  It is good that people are starting to pay more attention to adults on the autism spectrum too.  Although many people do change over time or improve in some ways – sometimes substantially – autism isn’t something that you outgrow.  Adolescents and adults have ASD and it affects their lives just as much as it can for children.

As you can see, Dr. DeOrnellas has helped me to understand quite a bit about autism.

This is the first of a two-part series.  In our next article, we will talk about safety concerns and introduce you to some of the more dangerous behaviors associated with autism.

References:

American Psychiatric Association. (2000). Diagnostic and statistical manual of mental

disorders (4th ed., text rev.). Washington, DC: Author.

Autism Society of America. (2009). Autism facts. Retrieved March 20, 2009 from

http://www.autism-society.org/site/PageServer?pagename=about_home

Cowley, G. (2003, September 8). Girls, boys, and autism. Newsweek, 42-50.

Bobbi Sheahan and Kathy DeOrnellas, Ph.D. are the authors of What I Wish I’d Known About Raising a Child With Autism; A Mom and a Therapist Offer Heartfelt Guidance for the First Five Years (Future Horizons, 2011).   Portions of this article are excerpted and adapted from Chapters 1 and 2 of the book, which is available at www.fhautism.com and wherever books are sold.   Readers of this blog can use the promotional code BOBBI for 15% off of of What I Wish I’d Known About Raising a Child With Autism  and any other Future Horizons product or conference, plus free shipping.  Bobbi’s website is www.bobbisheahan.com, and she would love to hear from you at me@bobbisheahan.com.  You can also connect with her on Twitter at  @BobbiSheahan or on Facebook.

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Book Review – The four letters of love

The four letters of love

by Nadina Boun

Valentine’s Day Special

What a pleasure it was to receive an advance copy of Nadina Boun’s latest book, The four letters of love. It is a book I’m pleased to recommend.  In it you will be given a  sweeping panoramic vision of love from its lofty emotional heights to more introspective examinations of love in all its forms. It can be seen as a metaphor for a dream, an analogy, description or comparison. Have you ever been disillusioned? If so, this book might help restore your faith in love as an inspirational source for good. Has your mind tried to comprehend all the aspects of love? If so, expect to find new ways to look at the subject.

I’m confident the author’s work will move you and touch your soul. It will challenge, enlighten and inspire you. It is a fitting tribute to a poet who has taken the subject seriously.

I highly recommend this book to readers for multiple reasons. Love is as complex as it is dynamic. It affects every aspect of our being. The four letters of love is a collection of works which includes poems, quotes and stories all focused on this magic word, Love.

For more information on The four letters of love please check out the links provided below:

The four letters of love video trailer

Goodreads Page has an entry form for a free book giveaway.

Nadina Boun’s websites:

http://nadinaboun.wordpress.com/

http://interviewsbynadina.wordpress.com/

Love for Arts

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Book Review – The World According to August by Sandy Westendorf

The World According to August – One Good Friend” opens with an effective statement of purpose; what it is and what it is not.

The book touched me deeply. It gives readers a deeply personal, yet insightful picture of a child with autism; how he and they are similar in many ways and yet different, as well.

It is the intent of the author to dispel common misconceptions about autistic children. The author uses a true story to illustrate the common, shared emotions that we all experience. We learn of concerns and needs they experience. This is a moving, touching and emotional read.

Quotation from the book.

Author

“Every child is unique; the extent to which they are affected is also individual. If you are not living with autism, it is easy to miss the child and only see the diagnosis. The book was written in an attempt to demonstrate, although outwardly, these children may appear different; but inside—where it counts—they are the same as you or me. Children with autism love, have an ego, feelings which can be hurt, a sense of humour, and even a mischievous side.

The book was written in an attempt to demonstrate, although outwardly,
these children may appear different; but inside—where it counts—they
are the same as you or me.Children with autism love, have an ego,
feelings which can be hurt, a sense of humour, and even a mischievous side.”

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Comments and order information:

Print quality is good. Illustrations are effective and well done. I highly recommend it to everyone.

If you’re interested in purchasing, Click here “The World According to August.”

Use this link for the Kindle version of “The World According to August.”

I want to follow this review with a poem thatwas inspired by the book:

Poem for an Autistic Child

A Tribute to August

from “The World According to August —

To soar on wings of eagles

to glide along the glade

to bounce and jump and whirl and twirl

to dream and search and sway.

He has so much in common

with you and me you see —

a bright and charming sweet young boy

who senses all with clarity.

To hear, to see and touch and smell,

he takes all in so well,

his self expression is unique

his feelings hard to sell.

We might whisper, he might yell

but one can never tell.

He likes himself and folks like him

and that works out quite well.

August has needs and we have ours,

life comes with give and take ―

love and comfort, peace and joy

needs all share, so we partake.

A smile, a doubt, a look askance

a wave, a nod, a sigh —

He needs hugs and love at times,

same as you and I.

He gazes on the sights nearby,

is stirred by beauty there.

A swan takes flight, a songbird sings,

if only he could fly.

Unspoken words may bite his tongue,

but thoughts within belie.

A word from Mom, a smile from Sis

unspoken things give him answers to why.

Show him love and friendship now

his joy you’ll never miss.

  Don’t ever leave just stay nearby,
he just might make you cry.

August is a special child

and August needs a friend.

August is a special child

And August is my friend.

a poem by Rich Weatherly, October 7, 2011

For more information about autism and “The World According to August – One Good Friend” by Sandy Westendorf  refer to http://purplebirch.com/books.html .

Sandy managed a team of behavioral specialists and is the mother of an autistic child. According to Sandy:

The book was written in an attempt to demonstrate, although outwardly,
these children may appear different; but inside—where it counts—they
are the same as you or me.Children with autism love, have an ego,
feelings which can be hurt, a sense of humour, and even a mischievous side.

I heartily encourage you to support research into autism by purchasing this book.  A percentage of the proceeds will be donated equally to support Canadian-American Research Consortium (Autism Research) and the International Society for Autism Research.

For more information about Sandra Westendorf, check her Purple Birch Publishing Website. For that you can click right here. 

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Interview – S.M. Boyce, Author of The Grimoire Trilogy

The Grimoire Lichgates & Author

S.M. Boyce created a magical fantasy adventure in The Grimoire Lichgates. Her protagonist is drawn into  a world reminiscent of the creations of Tolkein, C.S. Lewis and to some degree,   J.K. Rowling. At times frightening and at other times delighting, I’m confident you will enjoy the adventure.

How long have you worked on the Grimoire concept and novels?

I’ve been working on the Grimoire trilogy since I was sixteen, so 7 years. After years of plot development, character design, and half-finished drafts, I finally wrote the complete first draft for the novel in the early summer of 2011. It was released just this past October, but even after I wrote the first draft and thought that I had finalized everything, I would think, “But oh, wait! What if I did this, and then they went here?” and I’d change something.

…it’s amazing I published this at all, really.

What triggered the idea for the Grimoire series?

The Grimoire is one of those snowballs that started years ago and just sort of pummeled out of control. If anything, it is what it is today because I just let myself daydream about it. Virtually all of my notebooks eventually become sketch pads for character designs and plot points. It’s one of those consuming ideas, and I let my mind run with it.

What is your character development process?

My characters develop in layers. First, I look at who is needed to further the story. Do I need someone to take the main character somewhere? Does someone need to get in her way, or reroute her?

After I’ve looked at the basic “why” of a character’s purpose, I get to do the fun part: make them real. I design their character around the life they would be living in the world I created. Do they have family? Are they married? What are their hobbies? While I rarely tell readers all, if any, of this, it defines who this character is and makes them real. It gives them motivation and a personality, and it helps me to define their flaws and strengths. I design their dialect, fears, loves, and more to make them a real person and not just a character.

How about world building?

This is where my overactive imagination kicks in. I take a lot of inspiration from the natural world, because Earth is actually a pretty awesome place. Then, I exaggerate it or let my mind wander with “what if…?” questions. Why shouldn’t there be a floating city in the clouds that never stays in one place? What would an underwater city look like, and how would its people act? What if there were whole worlds hidden on the other side of a gate?

What are you doing to let people know about your new novel?

I started this really fun blog  for the Grimoire books. It’s essentially an online Grimoire, with excerpts, character art, character sketches and backstory, and even short stories and deleted chapters from the novel. The adventure doesn’t have to end because you close the book, right? Check it out. Here’s the new Book Trailer

Buy your own Grimoire!

  1. Amazon
  2. Barnes & Noble
  3. Smashwords
  4. Buy a print copy from CreateSpace

I’m also giving away a ton of copies of the book. This December, I’m participating in a holiday blog hop and I’m giving away a signed copy to one lucky winner. To enter, sign up for my S.M. Boyce blog and I’ll send out the notification on December 30.

I’m also doing a slew of giveaways In January in various states through the Big American Giveaway program. Head over to bigamericangiveaway.com to sign up and get alerts for your states.

The Big American Giveaway program is a pretty neat idea…every day, different businesses will be giving away different deals in every state. Just head to their website &  sign up to get daily alerts with what’s going on in your state, and if you like something, all you have to do to enter is mess around on Twitter and Facebook for a few minutes. It’s a pretty sweet deal.

I’m giving away 1 book a day in these states:

  • California (Jan. 18, 2012)
  • Colorado (Jan. 9, 2012)
  • Connecticut (Jan. 11, 2012)
  • Florida (Jan. 12, 2012)
  • Georgia (Jan. 10, 2012)
  • Illinois (Jan. 12, 2012)
  • Indiana (Jan. 7, 2012)
  • Maryland (Jan. 9, 2012)
  • Massachusetts (Jan. 12, 2012)
  • Michigan (Jan. 10, 2012)
  • Minnesota (Jan. 8, 2012)
  • Missouri (Jan. 9, 2012)
  • New Jersey (Jan. 11, 2012)
  • New York (Jan. 18, 2012)
  • North Carolina (Jan. 6, 2012)
  • Ohio (Jan. 6, 2012)
  • Pennsylvania (Jan. 10, 2012)
  • Tennessee (Jan. 7, 2012)
  • Texas (Jan. 13, 2012)
  • Virginia (Jan. 5, 2012)
  • Washington (Jan. 10, 2012)

What’s the next step for you?

I’m working hard to write the next two books and wrap up the trilogy before I start to work on other story ideas that have been stewing in the back of my mind. I’m hoping to have both books out by next year, though I don’t know when exactly they will be ready. If you sign up for the Grimoire Blog email digest, you’ll be the first to know!


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Guest Host – Autism Discussion Re-Visited

I am honored that Sandy Westendorf has agreed to continue her discussion on autism.

Author of The World According to August

She is the author of, The World According to August – One Good Friend.

Sandy’s book inspired me to write Poem for an Autistic child and has agreed to answer questions related to comments from the introduction of her book.

Interview questions

Your book, “The World According to August” touched me deeply. You give us a deeply personal, yet insightful picture of a child with autism; how he and they are similar in many ways and yet different, as well.

During our previous interview we discussed the reasons you authored The World According to August – One Good Friend.

In that interview you addressed challenges and rewards parents and children themselves faced and stressed the importance of recognizing uniqueness. We ended with you calling on others to learn more about those with disabilities.

Since then our conversations have touched on a couple of topics you feel strongly about. From this point forward, feel free to consider yourself the guest-host.

You and your family have been encouraged by a therapy that you now heartily endorse. Please don’t hesitate to step up on your soapbox. What do you have to say on this?

Correct, the therapy our son made the most significant gains on was the Lovaas Applied Behavioural Analysis therapy, commonly referred to as ABA.  This therapy was developed over forty years ago by Dr. Ivar Lovaas, a world renowned autism expert. Dr. Lovaas’s program was, at the time, the only peer reviewed, scientifically validated therapy. It uses Discreet Trial Training, where new skills are built upon in sequence and each mastered, much like constructing a brick building. The therapy includes Intensive Behavioural Intervention, which helps the child learn to manage their behaviors so they are able to focus and learn. There are many who still believe ABA is based on the use of negative reinforcements and/or the use of aversives, which is not the case. I know dozens of families who use ABA with great success, and not one has ever used aversives. They are not used in a correctly managed, modern program.

In conjunction with ABA we incorporated a play therapy called “Floortime”, which was developed by Dr. Stanley Greenspan. We saw the most gains utilizing these two programs in concert with each other. We explored several options in an effort to find the right fit, trying other diets, supplements and therapies – with little or no results. The one program which worked best for our child was the one we stuck with. It is what works best for your individual child which is the best treatment for them! Every child is unique, therefore, their responses to a treatment will be unique as well.

Parents should investigate their options, research, ask questions, and use common sense. Now we have many therapies, and diets available to families, some better than others. Sometimes it is the combination of programs or diets which  reveals the best outcome.

We discussed a controversial issue related to evidence linking vaccinations to the onset of autism. It might help others if you share what you’ve learned on the subject. Back to you…

This is a hot button issue, with many parents, not just myself.  For years the Pharmaceutical companies have been saying there is no link between vaccines and autism. I beg to differ, as do thousands of other parents, judging by the overwhelming anecdotal evidence many doctors still choose to ignore. I have heard my son’s story repeated too many times to count, by other parents of children with autism. The scenario is all too familiar, healthy, neuro-typical toddler goes to doctor to receive vaccinations (usually it is the MMR), within minutes to hours, toddler appears unresponsive (doctor’s will refer to this as an ‘infant faint’) they cannot explain why the same toddler now no longer speaks, makes eye contact, cries incessantly or in our son’s case has stopped walking.  Beginning in the early 90s the number of recommended childhood vaccines doubled! Thimerosal the preservative used (still in flu vaccines) contains over 49% mercury by weight.  Because of the known side effects of mercury poisoning, which mimic the symptoms of autism, there is now at least one version of the Thimerosal-free vaccines available.  With the huge public outcry against the Pharmaceutical companies, there were studies conducted to determine whether or not vaccines contributed to autism. The findings concluded there was no evidence to support the claims linking autism to vaccines.  Out of the 23 studies conducted, 18 of them were funded by major Pharmaceutical companies.  This appears to be a gross conflict of interest. If the studies were to find a link between autism and vaccines – what do you think the size of the class-action law suit against Pharmaceutical companies would be?  There appears to be no accountability and our children are being hurt.

Do I believe it was the vaccine which introduced autism into the life of my beautiful boy – yes! Do I believe vaccines cause all cases of autism – I don’t know, I only know what happened to my child. I have spoken to a few parents who recognized something different in their child from the moment they were born, but the majority I have had contact with have stories like ours.  Having said this, would I vaccinate my child, knowing what I know? Yes.  I would insist on single dose, no multivaliant vaccines, which are Thimerosal-free, and I would request they be spaced farther apart.  Vaccines save lives – this cannot be disputed. We just have to ask ourselves – how much is too much?

Are there any closing words you want to share at this time?

There is a glut of information out there; it is hard to know what is right for your child. For a parent who has just received the diagnosis of autism, take heart. It is not the end of the world, or the end of your child’s life – it is the beginning of a journey down a different path towards an unknown destination.  It will be rocky, and at times overwhelming, it will also be joyous and beautiful, and you will find your rhythm. Seek out organizations like FEAT (Families for Early Autism Treatment), autism support sites, etc… Don’t be afraid to advocate, strongly if the need be, for your child. You are their voice, their safe haven, and their best shot at a bright future.

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Additional comments?

I want to thank you for giving me the opportunity to stand on my soap-box and spread the message about people with disabilities. Many do not have a voice of their own. It is up to those of us, who love and care for them, to give them that voice. Parents should know it is okay to advocate for your child, special needs or mainstream. Encourage connections with people with different abilities – it will make all the difference – to you and to them. Eight months after I had finished writing the story and it was in the hands of my book designer, I came across the following link: http://www.wretchesandjabberers.org/screening2.php I was delighted to see other like-minded people. The short clips on the link show two men with autism trying to dispel many of the misconceptions of developmental disabilities. Their message was exactly what mine is – inside we are all the same.

For more information about Sandra Westendorf, check her Purple Birch Publishing Website. For that you can click right here. 

Caveat: Always check with your personal physician or pediatrician for advice regarding vaccinations. Information provided is the opinion of the interviewee and should not be taken as medical advice.

Link to The World According to August – One Good Friend, Trailer.

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Thrills at the Esplanade Cinema

DSCI1359 Regal movie theater in Nashville

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Thrills at the Esplanade Cinema

Featuring an Usher, Mr. Machen and Faithful Friends

A Short Story

By

Rich Weatherly

The once rural community of Huntsford changed after World War II. In recent years, large segments of the population migrated from farms to the cities. Roads and highways spread like tendrils across the lush green prairies. Grazing land and farm country morphed into housing developments. The economic boom padded the pockets of young baby boomers. Their loose change fueled the coffers of the Esplanade Cinema like oil from a pipeline. I worked at the Esplanade.

My walk to work took me across fields and pastures. Those walks reminded me of the farm where I lived and worked only a year earlier. In 1960 I cut and baled hay, herded cattle and did farm chores. Walks across fields on the edges of Huntsford brought back simple pleasures as the gentle breezes carried the sweet smell of fresh cut hay or the sounds of cattle lowing across the few remaining meadows. Yet this was a time and place for transitions.

The end of my walk brought me to the Esplanade Cinema. It anchored the west end of our first shopping center. King Boy’s Burgers was right on my way to the Esplanade; across the street from the theater. The proximity created a mutual attraction, since both businesses benefited from the influx of customers. My mouth watered in anticipation of grilled burgers each time I passed by. I wonder how many folks drove to King Boy’s for burgers only to be lured into an evening of fantasy at the theater.

At the Esplanade, good friends and a fair boss offered camaraderie and fulfillment. The theater was a wonderful place to work – close to home near places to meet and greet. You should have seen the place at night. It was like magic. Glow of neon lit the marquee with brilliant colors; reds and yellows danced across glistening panels while a neon star crowned the very top. The star appeared to dance when illuminated – rising, falling and collapsing on itself between oscillations, like a rolling wave on the open sea; a hypnotic illusion created by masters of lighting. The cycle repeated until the theater shutdown for the night.

The white marquee advertised the current attraction in letters we mounted one at a time – it took skill and patience to get the letters exactly where they belonged; each one placed on a long pole, lifted to the ledge and dropped in a groove. We nudged and adjusted the letter tiles into a secure spot where they remained until the next movie came along. Imagine posting a title like: The Pit and the Pendulum, featuring Roger Corman and Vincent Price.

I entered the theater through one of four sets of double-doors. As I arrived one day my boss, Mr. Machen announced some errands for me to take care of across town. He took notice at my surprise when he gave me the keys to his 1959 T-Bird. My assignment – transport records to another theater and deliver a briefcase full of cash to the bank. After I finished the errand he gave me another one – take a purchase order to the Palace Theater and pay for seats their owner removed to make room for new ones. Esplanade could do without ‘designer’ seats. These older ones met the Mr. Machen’s approval without exception. His practicality and frugality always on display.

The curtain rose every night like clockwork. It took a lot of hard work to get the Esplanade Cinema ready for the next show. Mr. Machen would hire a cleanup crew to take care of the really disgusting work: toilets, heavy vacuuming. People spilled drinks, dropped popcorn and candy wrappers anywhere: on the floor, in the seats, between the seats. Gum stuck to the bottom of seats like lumpy tacks. Don’t ever check to see. Trust me. You don’t want to find out.

The cleanup crew didn’t mess around. Their heavy-duty vacuums and shampoo equipment attacked the maroon and black speckled Berber carpet extending from the entry to the dais under the movie screen. After the cleanup, the theater crew made a final inspection walking the aisles and checking between seats to ensure nothing was amiss spot cleaning as we went. Craig and I were ushers. Karen and Roberta worked as greeters and in concessions.

The last few hours before opening changed priorities. Ticket sales were number one. No sales, no job. Jill, our ticket agent, worked the booth selling tickets. If she needed a break, the rest of us pitched in.

Priority number two. Get the concessions area ready for business when our customers’ arrived. Several things occurred simultaneously; safety always paramount. We started by making popcorn because heating up the popcorn machine took time. Lift the kettle lid and add the kernels to boiling oil. This required extra care. Hot oil can cause third degree burns. The sound of the stainless steel kettle jiggling in clear view excited and mesmerized customers, delivering the intended effect. We passed them boxes of luscious buttery popcorn, they handed over their cash. If more persuasion was needed, the sights, sounds and aroma did the rest to keep the customers coming. While the popcorn popped, the soda machine operator poured the soft drinks – ice in a cup, pull down a lever, fill them with syrup and add carbonated water. Getting the fresh popcorn and drinks out on the service counter meant the concessions area was ready for business.

While Craig and I helped the girls prepare the concessions area our projectionist, Sid arrived through a side entrance with heavy cases of movie reels. He dashed up the balcony stairs and through a side door to the projection booth. Viewing ports next to the projection lens provided a clear view of the entire theater.

Ticket sales escalated as curtain time drew near. Customers waited in two lines; one to purchase tickets, the other to get in. Crowds were often restless, always eager to rush the doors for the best seats. No one wanted to get in their way. A pushy mob is dangerous. Unlatching the door was tricky, the only barrier to a stampeding hoard. One instant after the doors opened, the Esplanade’s aura resembled a midway of yelling, pushing thrill seekers. Parents of the teens dropped them off wanting a break and time to themselves. Things settled into a normal routine once the mob became a crowd again.

As one of the ushers, my job required more than escorting guests to their seats. Besides clearing obstructions from the aisles, looking for items of clothing, money, wallets people may have dropped in the dark, we provided a broad array of services on request. During my rounds, I directed a flashlight beam where needed, sometimes helping those with night blindness or pointing out objects someone might trip over. Ushers are charged with maintaining order. Most of the audience is young and must be reminded they are not in a school yard. We spent more time controlling unruly kids than we should have because many would not cooperate. Rebels needed to be escorted from the auditorium. One lad when asked to quiet down one refused. I escorted him out the way my mom would have; by thumb and forefinger. Those two digits work rather well when clamped to the offender’s ear. It’s amazing how cooperative he became when in my grasp. I took him straight out the door and told him not to come back.

By contrast, I greeted an elderly woman waiting at the back of the auditorium and helped her to a seat. She wore a pleasing fragrance of expensive cologne and fresh body powder. When I greeted her she politely requested an aisle seat. I offered her my arm and led her to a seat, shining the flashlight on the floor, giving her time to sit and get settled.

Glancing toward the balcony, I noticed a young woman leaning back in her seat, ankles elevated and pink penny-loafers crisscrossed on the armrest in front of her. When she realized I noticed her, she became defiant. I looked away for a moment hoping she would take her feet off the armrest. Still no response. She knew her actions violated theater rules because of the signs posted everywhere. Her behavior distracted other guests and her actions were damaging the furniture.

I felt the situation reaching a flash point. She remained defiant. Even her outfit screamed anarchy: gold and black striped sweater, patent leather belt, pink miniskirt. Approaching her, I spoke clearly. “Please place your feet on the floor, Miss. You know the rules.” A primal stare was her answer. I stepped back as her rebellion escalated into rage. In an instant, the vixen bared her teeth, cheeks flushed; her eyes ablaze and nostrils flared. Her knuckles turned white as she gripped the armrest berating my efforts to reason with her. I left in frustration and retreated down the steps away from her childish display – let her gloat, convinced she’d won the day.

I fought hard to control the adrenaline surging through my body. Down in the main auditorium, I composed myself, considering my next course of action. A moment later I called Craig, the other usher over and directed his attention to the girl. I asked him to keep an eye on the girl while I informed Mr. Machen of the situation. A few days earlier he provided instructions on actions to take when a situation got out of hand. I knocked on his office door. When he asked me to come in I briefed him on the problem. He asked me to keep him informed. Still trying to calm my nerves, I continued to monitor the balcony when the situation went from bad to worse.

The vixen’s boyfriend arrived with an entourage of six other thugs, with their jet black hair slicked back, black leather jackets and red shirts with collars turned up. They resembled James Dean. Their jeans were all cinched by studded leather belts. The leader wore black boots with silver tipped toes. West Side Story meets Gentleman’s Quarterly in the early ‘60s. The guy swaggered toward me, an usher with a crew cut. Guido. Surely it was some such name.

He closed in, his snarling, menacing face staring under a twisted brow; his pursed lips twisting into a sneer. The gang of six formed a semi-circle behind me curving from left to right. Rigid robots awaiting orders to pounce, shifting like snakes to intimidate a clean-cut kid in their way.

“Whatta __ ya doin’ getting fresh wit my girl, you fuzzy headed stooge. You tryin’ to be friendly or somethin’, usher boy?”

I locked my eyes on his. “Are you referring to a certain young woman in the balcony, sir? I asked her to obey the theater rules and place her feet on the floor. Her legs were propped up on the furniture.”

“That’s not what she told me! You better apologize for getting fresh wit my fiancée!”

I drew back a little. “I don’t know what you’re talking about. I’m only doing my job.”

Guido stomped, jerked his shoulders and whipped out a shiny switch blade slicing the air as he flicked the tip from side-to-side inches from my face; the point inching closer. He twisted his wrist and the blade rolled and twitched from side to side. “She said you made a pass at her!”

“I did not. Let’s try to calm down for a minute and talk about what really happened.”

I was nearly at wits end when, Mr. Machen called out to Guido. “Put the knife down and step away!” The boss then opened his jacket where a 1911 Colt 45 ACP semi-automatic pistol gleamed in his shoulder holster. About the same time, sirens screamed in the distance. Guido and his gang turned pale at the sudden reversal.

Watching the scene unfold below, vixen bolted down the stairs on a determined trajectory to the west EXIT sign. Guido and his cronies fled behind her into the arms of the police. We never saw Guido, his gang or the vixen again.

A short time later Mr. Machen told me Sid noticed the threat, called him and notified the police. I owed Sid and Mr. Machen a debt of gratitude; they saved my bacon. I tried to relax but chills ran up my spine. I said, “Mr. Machen, thank for your help. I don’t know what might have happened otherwise.”

“Let’s go to my office,” he said.

A smell fresh tobacco and Old Spice shaving lotion filled the office. These odors permeated the little room. The scent of his wife’s perfume lingered from an earlier visit. After I sat down, he leaned forward. “I can’t say how sorry I am this happened on your watch, kid. I was a Golden Gloves boxer. And I’m no stranger to trouble.” After giving me time for his comment to sink in, he continued. “I always stay prepared. Try not to dwell on this incident otherwise it’ll drive you nuts.”

“Yes, sir.”

“The movie’s underway and it’s getting late. How about you call it a night? You are too shook up to keep on working.”

I thanked him and headed home, tired and in shock thinking on what might have been.

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I continued working at the Esplanade, as did my friends – Craig the other usher, Karen, Roberta who worked concessions, and Jill our ticket agent. Sid, our projectionist along and Mr. Machen, may have saved my life. I stayed on until June of 1963. Events of the night gave me enough sobering reality to last a lifetime – all because one girl and her guy were bent on a life of rebellion.

I gave Mr. Machen notice letting him know of my active duty commitment with the Navy. I never saw my old boss again but will always have fond memories of the man and the Esplanade Cinema. He ran a tight ship, hired good people and took care of them.

Epilogue

The couple in black – Guido and his vixen; my hope is they turned their backs on their rebellious life style and pursued a better life. Some rebels eventually do, becoming pillars of the community. Others go from bad to worse. Some go to prison but some die because they never learned.

A month after graduating high school I packed up and hopped a Sante Fe passenger train, eventually arriving at the Great Lakes Naval Training Center in North Chicago. There I worked and studied. Six months later after graduating from electronics school I headed home. I was getting my medical records at the base infirmary on November 22, 1963 when terrible news blasted over the loud-speaker– “President John F. Kennedy has been shot in Dallas.” A hush fell over the room, everyone in stunned disbelief. Confusion reigned. All hung their heads in sadness and many said prayers as we shuffled toward the exit, each continuing on to our respective destinations.

The train ride home was a long one. I slept most of the trip, too depressed to do much else. Two days later the train arrived in Dallas. Something caused a delay as the train slowed to enter the station.  Later we learned the Lee Harvey Oswald shooting took place in the county jail near Dealy Plaza where President Kennedy was shot on Friday. A few months later my ship patrolled Pacific islands like Iwo Jima, Saipan, Tinian and Truk Atoll where only twenty years earlier US forces fought bloody battles against the Japanese. Not quite a year later we patrolled the shore line and estuaries of South Vietnam; part of the blockade known as Operation Market Time. The US was up to its ears in another bloody war. The Vietnam War lasted most of another decade. I lost friends and comrades at arms in Vietnam. Their memories still haunt me. Looking back, my problem at the Esplanade added another check mark on my list of painful lessons and another cause for reflection.

Those were hard times for me. In the span of three years of my life I lived through the following:  an assault at the point of a knife; lost my dad, a survivor of the attack on Pearl Harbor, retraced World War II battles and engaged an enemy at war. My outlook on life took on new meaning as a result.

If you have a similar story or other contribution please leave a comment.

I owe my editor and friend Mary McReynolds a debt of gratitude for her unselfish and helpful recommendations. You can view her work at: http://maryhicksmcreynolds.com/category/published-books

This is a work of fiction. Any resemblance to real or fictional characters is purely coincidental.

© 2011 Richard L Weatherly

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Poetic Potpourri

Poetic Potpourri selections by Rich Weatherly

via Poetic Potpourri.

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Guest Interview – Author of The World According to August, on Autism

To my readers, I am honored to introduce you to Sandy Westendorf,

Author of The World According to August

author of The World According to August – One Good Friend.

Sandy’s book inspired me to write Poem for an autistic child and has agreed to answer questions related to comments from the introduction of her book.

Interview questions

Your book, “The World According to August” touched me deeply. You give us a deeply personal, yet insightful picture of a child with autism; how he and they are similar in many ways and yet different, as well. Each numbered item is a quote from your book. Next is my question in italics.

Would you care to comment on these statements from the introduction of your book?

  1. Every child is unique; the extent to which they are affected is also individual. If you are not living with autism, it is easy to miss the child and only see the diagnosis. The book was written in an attempt to demonstrate, although outwardly, these children may appear different; but inside—where it counts—they are the same as you or me. Children with autism love, have an ego, feelings which can be hurt, a sense of humour, and even a mischievous side.What would you like to add to these observations?

It does not matter whether you are part of the mainstream or not.  We all seek attachments. Attachment is vital to our health.  Humankind tends to observe the obvious first, I’m no different. What is obvious about autism? Behaviors – mostly. What is missed? The person, the one who is seeking attachments, trying to find a way to belong and fit into our society. Autism is not contagious; your children will not catch it from a play-date with a child who has special needs.  In fact, mainstream children who engage others with disabilities exhibit more tolerance, confidence and appear to have deeper connections with their peers as a result.

I observed the mainstream public had many misconceptions about children with autism. I wanted the world to know – they have the same feelings, dreams and disappointments as us all.  Like most of us, people with autism also appreciate a good joke.

2. What you will find in these pages is a humorous and occasionally touching account of how a child with autism views the world.

On a lighter note, please comment on the emotional side of working with and parenting an autistic child.

Let’s see, the rewards are harder won, therefore; the moment you see something finally click for your child – it is like winning the lottery.  You make a BIG deal about their hard-earned accomplishment.  You start to see everything in a different light and tend not take things for granted.  You pay attention to the little things

This is by no means a portrayal of how all autistic children experience the world, as every child is unique.

Would it be fair to suggest that one of your goals is to encourage those who have misconceptions about autistic children to reconsider their positions and to look for meaning in the lives of these valued members of society?

Yes, absolutely. Try not to place a ‘cookie cutter’ label on them. In the interest of simplicity, many individuals with autism are labeled ‘low, medium or high functioning’.  Most people then have a general sense of the individual’s abilities.  What the general populous might not realize is, there are splinter skills within these categories.  You may have someone who is considered ‘high-functioning’ but cannot read or they struggle with math.  My son for example, is considered ‘low-functioning’ because his language deficits are pronounced. However, this is a child who did not speak until he was four years old, but he taught himself to read at the age of three!  We had him tested – no one believed us.  He is also a little math whiz, but struggles with social interactions.  He generalizes faster than most. This means once he has grasped the foundation of a new concept, he can generalize it across anything and he is off and running with it.  These are a few of his splinter skills, areas where he is above the curve.

I guess what I am trying to say, in a round-about way is- you don’t know what someone is capable of, or what you can learn from them until you give them a chance. You may be surprised.

Would you like to add any other comments?

I want to thank you for giving me the opportunity to stand on my soap-box and spread the message about people with disabilities. Many do not have a voice of their own. It is up to those of us, who love and care for them, to give them that voice. Parents should know it is okay to advocate for your child, special needs or mainstream. Encourage connections with people with different abilities – it will make all the difference – to you and to them. Eight months after I had finished writing the story and it was in the hands of my book designer, I came across the following link: http://www.wretchesandjabberers.org/screening2.php I was delighted to see other like-minded people. The short clips on the link show two men with autism trying to dispel many of the misconceptions of developmental disabilities. Their message was exactly what mine is – inside we are all the same.

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Review of the Novel – Pentecost, a Thriller

PentecostPentecost by Joanna Penn

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Pentecost. A Thriller. (Kindle Edition)

Readers of action adventure and suspense-thrillers will love Pentecost by Joanna Penn. Get ready for a globe hopping journey that will take you from India to Arizona with numerous stops in-between.

Morgan Sierra once served with Israel’s IDF and she knows her way around in combat. She left that life to become an academic trained at Oxford as a biblical scholar and in psychology. She and her twin sister possess what is said to be Apostle’s Stones, stones taken from the tomb of Christ after the resurrection. There are people who believe these stones give the holder great power. This leads to the kidnapping of Morgan’s sister Faye and niece Gemma.

Two powerful organizations are determined to collect all of the stones. They believe these stones were the source of astonishing events on the original Day of Pentecost in Act 2 of the New Testament. Morgan will do anything to rescue Faye and Gemma. One organization, Thanatos collects occult and religious objects and believes that if they follow Morgan she will lead them to the stones in her effort to affect a rescue.

Morgan is eventually persuaded to join forces with ARKANE against her own better judgment. It is the lesser of two evils as far as she is concerned. ARKANE does have advantages. Using powerful computers and a massive network of resources, they promise to help Morgan in her quest. ARKANE will do anything to keep Thanatos away from the stones because Thanatos will stop at nothing that gets in their way.

As the story unfolds the reader follows Morgan as she uses data gained from research to track down the remaining stones. It is a race against time and unimaginable consequences.

Joanna Penn’s Pentecost is filled with vivid images taken from holy shrines around the world. If you’re into action and fight scenes, you won’t be disappointed. Readers of historical fiction will enjoy revelations gleaned from painstaking research.

Joanna’s work has been compared to Dan Brown and Morgan Sierra to Lora Croft. I’d venture to suggest that fans of Clive Cussler will enjoy the book as well. Get a copy of Pentecost and you have a real pager turner in your hands. You will not be disappointed.

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A Tribute to – December 7, 1941, “A Date Which Will Live in Infamy…”

Raleigh listing to port following attack on Pearl Harbor

This is a re-post from earlier this year but it is most relevant now.

7 December 1941, America enters WWII

“A day which will live in Infamy!”

A warm Sunday morning; about 7:45 a.m. to 8 a.m. Church bells, laughter a day of peace and rest. My dad, A.C. Weatherly Jr. is shaving and about to step ashore but on this day that would not happen. Klaxons Sounded, Squawk Box Screamed, Air Raid Pearl Harbor, December 7, 1941.

A crash of steel upon steel, ripped, screaming from forces not meant to be; Main deck, deck plates, deck after deck and into the mud below. A deafening Roar as the Bomb detonates beyond. The hull rises, falls and lists. USS Raleigh (CL-7) became an early casualty at Pearl Harbor that Day. Round One.

Damage control underway. Gaping holes and torn seams shored for now. Then, impact Two… this time horizontal as the torpedo slams into the engine room. Some survivors there but below decks, not a pretty site. The fight goes on.

Retrospective- Courageous acts by officers and men saved most souls on board. She was kept afloat by jettisoning everything not permanently attached; barges supported, pumps counter-flooded and breaches were shored. Raleigh made it and survived for the duration. Just one ship that day out of many. Our Navy’s greatest loss for a time. Life and Fight go on.
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After that we were honored to have dad home again.
Peace is won through strength.

Vigilance must never fail. Thanks to that Greatest Generation, so few now but always honored and yet we pay tribute and go on to fight our wars and win the peace for future generations.

Link below is Raleigh in 1942, ready for action:

http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:USS_Raleigh_%28CL-7%29_July_1942.jpg
USS Raleigh (CL-7) July 1942

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